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Jun 2, 2021 10 tweets 1 min read Read on X
If you want to get ahead,

your private life must seperate itself from your public life,

in all aspects of who you are.
Your intolerance towards others is what preserves your values and integrity.

But it’s also your intolerance that ruins your popularity.
To speak your mind and convey the beliefs you uphold is always a tactical error,

for most people will not share your values,

and so they’ll secretly despise you.
You must remain intolerant, but not exhibit your intolerance to others.

You have to seek to buy your popularity,

at the cost of manipulating your beliefs to what best fits your surrounding.
The more you express your intolerance and high standards,

the less popularity you will accrue, at scale.
The cost of not being popular among your surrounding,

is the loss in opportunity to leverage word of mouth, and by extension,

a credible reputation.
Your beliefs, your philosophy, your principles,

MUST therefore differ publicly,

to what they are privately.
I would not be who I am with you on here, if I was not anonymous.

I am not who I am outside my home.

I become what best satisfies others.

So I can bend them to what best satisfies my needs.
Your values, beliefs and philosophy in life,

must remain flexible to change outside your home.

Conveying your values to others does not matter.

Charming others with values that appeal to them does.
Very few in your life,

will earn the right to be exposed to your true values and beliefs.

Family & blood.

Play the game with the rest.

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There’s utility in placing a narcissist at the top of the chain;

when the organisation requires a shake up. When too many people need to be fired.

It’s a risky strategy…
because generally, the most competent workers leave immediately.

But if you have a incompetent, poorly managed workforce,

the best individuals resign ANYWAY. They have options.
Placing the narcissist in charge, will create the shake up necessary for a cleanse.

A handful of people resign, pointing fingers at the narcissist as the reason for their exit.

Then when the time is right, leverage that information to remove the narcissist.
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If you find that you don't get offended in an interactive situation where otherwise 99% of the people would,

there's a good chance that you have extreme emotional detachment.

If there is NO internal ego triggered, you can control your offending counterpart in many ways.
Most interactions go sour because one person says something that offends in one way or another. May be subtle, may be rash.

Most people react. Some don't but still internalize it.

VERY FEW stay completely detached.
Practice remaining neutral (internally and expressively) to offensive remarks.

To the point where you welcome it.

The idea is not for you to fail in distinguishing between rude/polite people.

But its for people to realize that nothing triggers a reaction out of you.
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Disagreeableness is the most attractive trait for men.

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Disagreeableness as a term at face value makes little sense with regards to attractiveness.

But applying context to what you’re saying “no” to immediately makes you stand out.
No to availability.

You shouldn’t be available at the request of anyone.

You should be unavailable, because you’re busy pursuing something of great importance and meaning to you.

And everyone else should suffer in comparison.
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Money and happiness.

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Happiness breaks down to two forms;

hedonism and eudaimonia (fulfilment in meaningful life).

Money stimulates the hedonistic part of your happiness.

It doesn’t satisfy fulfilment in meaning.
Fulfilment in life is not the same as pleasure.

Fulfilment in life derives from suffering.

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Becoming a high value man,

through shadow integration.

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it means you have a limited understanding of what the driving forces are behind your behaviour.

To stop acting out in weak, uncharacteristic manner, you must integrate your shadow.
Conceptualise yourself as having multiple personalities. Because if there's a side to you that regrets your own actions,

its possible that you're not entirely in control of who you are.

Its possible that those other personalities are desires that work against you.
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