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Apr 8 4 tweets 1 min read
Whenever I start missing home even when I'm at home, I know I'm deeply distressed. This happened to me a few days ago.
Over the years, it took a while to identify the feeling. To understand that what I was really missing was the family home in Magodo where my parents used to live. So, I was indirectly missing my parents (now deceased).
I was longing for my mom to ask if I had eaten and then give instructions for food to be served. I was wishing for my dad to ask about my work, career and travel plans in obvious pride. And, I was remembering the prayers my mom would say just as I was leaving.
Those are the things I recognized as "home" and those are the feelings we must curate for our children.

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