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God's Daughter is back again!(wife/mother) I am anointed to do great things in life the world is not familiar with and God gets all the glory!
Nov 25, 2021
Cheating in marriage is a very dangerous thing we married people engage in. This thread might be long but I will try and summarize it.
Firstly, the Bible says; 'one will chase a thousand and two ten thousand'. For that exponential growth to happen without any hindrances, both of you have to be completely involved in the relationship. I am talking about 100%, not 50/50. You guys have to be completely involved, body, spirit, and soul. And selflessly take each other's feelings into account.
*When you start cheating, you affect your creative ability. Your
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Nov 24, 2021
Yesterday, I went out shopping with my husband. When we got to the supermarket, we started looking at the prices of different beverages there. It was time for us to make a buying decision.
Looking at the different brands of milk and considering the economic situation, our decision was influenced by the following factors;
*We wanted something very affordable, we already knew the best products in the market because we have been buying milk for over 5 years now. So, we weren't all that interested in the best, we just wanted something of good quality
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Nov 23, 2021
When I was much younger, my dad often refers to a home that broke up because of a fish head. The man was angry because the woman ate the fish head that he is the head of the home and the fish head belongs to him. The family eventually scattered because of the fish head. I have analyzed this story for more than 20 years in my head, it has become a very hot topic that I silently deliberate on. How will fish head break a home? Just like how the story I shared about my husband asking me to dress the bed(caused a lot of Twitter uproar, some people even said
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Nov 23, 2021
In all of these, the daughter is the real winner here. It is just unfortunate that it took this for her to realize that she allowed both a useless mother and husband into her life. It would only cause her a little discomfort, with the right support, she would be grateful to them later in life. When I was still single and much younger, people around me struggled to understand how I managed to stay strong amid so many heartaches and disappointments. I just attach too much value to myself in life, to the point that I have choices to make, I just
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Nov 23, 2021
Fear is not a good recommendation to motivate people into doing the right things, the results have not been flawless. Take for instance, religion, a lot of people will not be Christians if they are sure that there is no hellfire. The fear of hell has kept them as Christians, this has made the experience uninteresting. God is not calling us to fellowship because He wants us to make heaven. Heaven is just a means to separate His children and start all over again after His first attempt on giving us heaven was foiled by us. Hell doesn't exist to threaten us
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Nov 10, 2021
When I was still single, I had this boyfriend. The relationship was still young, and he knows how to play drums. So, he decided to visit our church and help us out with a program we were organizing. I was the youth leader then. This young man was in church when a guest minister came, he walked towards me during ministration, put his hands on my head, and said that I would get married to a very great man. After the service, my then-boyfriend was very sad. Oga, what is the matter, he said that he wouldn't be my husband because he wasn't a great man. I was
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Nov 9, 2021
There was this couple, the wife was a very successful lawyer and he was also successful in his job, working in an oil company. They looked like a power couple but the lady came to the marriage with a mindset that she can't have her rights trampled, she must always point it out she was a very intelligent woman, he was also very intelligent, so, they would argue about everything, nobody backs down. Every thing down to roles in the house were shared, it then boiled down to responsibilities. In the process of claiming right, the love was lost and the drive
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Nov 9, 2021
A lot of people going through depression are great people with great destinies. Some people are going through a depressing state of mind because they feel inadequate, not because they are not doing well enough but the greatness in them is pushing to be let out, and at that peak when they don't understand any of it, the negative whispers keep coming in, telling them that they are not good enough, they are not adequate, they don't deserve the stress they are going through, it is too overwhelming for them and they start listening to these voices speak
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Nov 9, 2021
Sometimes we get hurt and heartbroken not because men are scum or women are evil, but we haven't taken time to build ourselves in fellowship with God. We just wake up, look at our age and tell ourselves that we are old enough to be in a relationship, then we go ahead and start We don't take time to understand the essence of a relationship. When I was still young and single, I had to end several relationships at the early stages but my friends were looking at me as if I am possessed; 'this man loves you so much and wants to marry you but you are saying
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Nov 8, 2021
I used to be like some ladies here when we first got married. He doesn't talk fast but my mouth can run 10 things in a second. Immediately he starts talking, you will see me trying to immediately explain why I am right and he is wrong. I might even raise my voice a bit higher but he would just ask; 'are you raising your voice at me?' I will start explaining how that's how I talk and he would just keep quiet and walk away. Since I am very observant, I will notice how sad he would be for the rest of the day until I go back and apologize, then immediately
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Nov 8, 2021
Let's talk about dating;
I noticed that in Nigeria, we find it difficult to end relationships especially when it is not helping us. We love to endure too much and this is one of the factors that have led to cheating and some failed marriages.
- this lady and man don't have common goals, you don't have any common interests, you don't like the same things, you can't sit down and discuss randomly for even 30 mins because there is nothing to talk about. Just sex and responsibilities. Apart from those things, nothing brings you both together. But because she
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Nov 7, 2021
You know, 'the devil' can be very useful at times, he prepares you for the worst-case scenario if you look at it from my angle. What are the reasons why people with wonderful homes tend to shy away from countering the evil narratives out there? This is because they are afraid of losing their homes in a bid to testify to other families. Before I came all out to start using my personal experience to explain lots of life issues, all the possible negative narratives have gone through my head but it doesn't matter how many years we have been together, I have
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Nov 7, 2021
Let me drop this here, staying faithful to one another in marriage is bliss! It can help you memorize each other's bodies and help you understand your partner's bodies in ways you can never imagine. The way your bodies will react to each other and your partner's unique smell will never be offensive. The human body knows how to adapt and when it knows only one body, it would practically master it. Both of you need to make that decision not to invite anyone into your pleasure circle and just pleasure yourselves. Experiment with each other's bodies in
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Nov 5, 2021
'Respect' means different things to different men. Even at this stage of our relationship, my husband still uses the phrase 'you didn't respect me' at times in some situations. Now let me break it down.
To some men, respect is when you listen to them without raising your voice at them. To some others, it's when you acknowledge them in your daily activities and you consider their needs. Or when you respect their decisions. Etc. Now, as a woman you have to understand where that man is coming from and the values he is coming into the relationship with for
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Nov 5, 2021
A few days ago, Oga came back from work, went into the room, and as he was coming out, he saw me sitting in the parlor. He said; 'go and dress the bed, I want to sleep'. Honestly, I was not too pleased with the moment but something kept making me keep quiet and obey, I couldn't understand it. I was murmuring to myself when I got into the room like; what is so difficult in making the bed, why is he always asking me to do almost everything for him? Why couldn't he just lay the bed for himself? All these complaints were within me but I still did the bed
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Nov 4, 2021
Some of you don't have sense! Do you people think I was trying to make him not cheat? He was too good, too good that I didn't know how to reciprocate. Even when things were very tight with him, he will sit down and the only thing he is calculating is how to share the limited resources around the house to satisfy us. He wasn't thinking about himself and he seems to be performing magic. I looked at him and I was moved to the point of asking myself what I will do for him! Most of you have husbands that go over and beyond for you but because of the
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Nov 4, 2021
Most of my tweets are threads because this is social media, I love to make all my points clear. I am not here to gather followers that's why when I lost my old account with almost 13k followers, I didn't go looking for them, I told myself that I need organic followers. Just the way I built my last account, I will build this one all over again with my contents. I need us to learn together not just catch cruise, I need bleeding families to receive healing. My desire to heal families is greater than my fear of criticism, so I don't care about your energy
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Nov 3, 2021
I sat my husband down one day and asked him; 'what do you really need from me? How can I keep making you happy and satisfied?' Oga said; 'good food and sex'. From a logical standpoint, you might be easily fooled to think that this is all he needs but the truth is that, this is actually what he feels he is not getting enough of or these might just be his priorities. I had to sit down and think about it, if I satisfy him with good food and sex, his needs might either change to another area I am not covering or he might just be contented. I have seen
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Nov 3, 2021
When I was younger, I used to daydream a lot and get cut up in my fantasies. Funny enough, I hardly fantasied about relationships. I will always imagine myself having lots of money, enjoying all the things I couldn't have and assisting people I couldn't assist. As I grew older, people close to me will come and tap my brain because those fantasies turned into big dreams and plans. I have imagined owning a very big facility where I train people for free and help them to empower themselves. Because I didn't have money, I keep imagining different ways I can
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Nov 3, 2021
Looking at the Bible, I am starting to understand that there are a lot of supernatural beings that exist on earth here but are hidden away from the human eyes. I know that witches exist, I believe that hell exists and I have a vague theory that vampires, mermaids, human wolfs etc exists. I even believe that dragons are not extinct and we still have funny creatures of the night we are not yet preview to. A lot of truths are expressed through films and the Bible has some hidden confirmations, it is so hidden that if you are not prompted by the Holy Spirit
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Oct 7, 2021
Let me drop this here before going off to study;
Yesterday, I spoke with our help at home. I took my time to educate her on the consequences of child abuse, I also took my time to inform her that I practically study the reactions of my children at every given time. I don't just listen to them, I observe their body language to better understand them and the slightest change in their temperament doesn't go unnoticed. I told her that sometimes when I am in the room sewing and I hear the cry of my children, I can tell the reason behind their cry by hearing
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