Thread by @nonmanfryingpan

I was messaged by a “journalist” asking a about my daughters story for their vile rag. No exclusive quotes from me, fuckers but I’ll publicly post it here. It’s not exciting or seedy.

There was a fantastic restaurant called Smoke (lots of still mooing steaks) they had mixed toilets. Essentially enclosed cubicles but each labelled with icon of a male bodied person or a female bodied person. Each had a wee sink in the cubicle so it was only a shared corridor

With mirrors that was mixed. It didn’t stop, however groups of rowdy drunken men being leery or grabby or flashing themselves as they didn’t bother to walk into the cubicles before getting their cocks out

Y’see the problem with these mixed toilets wasn’t that trans women were using them, it was that drunk horny entitled Male hipsters were using them without consideration for other users, in particular families. They didn’t stick to the men’s cubicles either.

I digress. My then 9year old left her cubicle early while I was still sorting myself out. We entered an empty toilet and left to a stag do queuing up to take a slash. She was flashed at by a guy who couldn’t wait to get his cock out in the cubicle and

Propositioned by another. She’s 9 fucking years old and there’s a grown man trying to chat her up. I did get very angry when I came out to hear this go on but she was terrified so we had to try to leave quickly. I had five drunken men get aggressive with me for

Defending my 9 yr old from this guy’s drunken advances. I didn’t use inflammatory language or claim he was a paedo or pervert, as I needed to keep them as calm as possible to pass them by safely.

Safety was my prime concern. 5 or so drunken stags blocking my and my daughter’s exit in a tiny wee corridor in a mixed toilet. Only one voiced reason and tried to help us out but the guy who propositioned my now crying daughter pinched her arse as we left and laughed.

Staff justified their behaviour as boys will be boys and it’s just a stag do no harm done and police weren’t interested (how can we find a drunken man in a big city) -

My once confident to pee on her own 9 year old now needs taken to the toilet by a parent and she’s scared. You see the fear of gender neutral toilets isn’t fear or denial of someone who thinks they’re a woman, it’s entitled men who think they’ve a right to grope at 9 year olds.

And the organisations who justify that behaviour as men will be men/ boys will be boys; the police who say helpful stuff like just keep out of their way (i.e. don’t pee in restaurants where a group of men can block your exit) don’t help

I should point out that restaurant no longer exists in our town at least.,