In 2019, we’re giving people opportunities to grow. They decide if they will take them or not. They decide if they will cancel themselves. We don’t decide that for them. [1]
There’s an enormous amount of emotional labor that goes into cancelling a person. In 2019, I realize that I have to set a boundary around when and how I’m extending that labor. Sometimes people don’t just don’t deserve that energy. [2]
Those who wish to live a life of harming and hurting everyone around them are making a decision to cancel themselves. I don’t have to do that work for them. I don’t have to manage or take the lead in cancelling them. I literally can just walk away. [3]
Because the seeds they’ve planted in the ground fueled by ego, self-rejection, destruction, etc., are their seeds. [4]
And for those who want to change - they have to make that decision for themselves. I’ll always leave the light on for people who wish to be better than they once were. I’ll leave the light on for you. [5]
#BoundaryWork
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