Thread by @skinandall_

1. I love my radio a lot. There's a radio in most of my regular spaces. My father in law buys me new radios that he thinks I might like. I have some favorite radio stations and programs in every city I live in. There's a program called "mamamileko" on Inspiration 100.5FM at 1pm

2. on Wednesdays in Ibadan that talks on life issues. I try not to miss it. The anchor is great. Today's talk was on divorce.
Dear people...It happens. Irreconcilable differences can occur even in relationships that were once the cynosure of all eyes. A marriage is healthier

3. when the two people involved are ACTIVELY working on being intentional and deliberate about the relationship. Like every good thing in life...it doesn't come easy.
If you have tried all your best and it is still not working out..please seperate amicably without becoming toxic

4. to each other and your kids especially. I honestly believe a lot of adults are dysfunctional today because of their upbringing. Reminisce on the good times you had together. In Islam, divorce is abhorred but not forbidden. And it is encouraged to treat each other well even

5. after the divorce. Some people may have been bad for each other, but will be excellent for other people. That someone is a bad spouse, doesn't meab they'll be bad parents.

A ten year old boy called in today on the show about his parent's seperation and my heart broke hearing

6. him speak. Divorce is never easy on anyone. Please, don't involve the children in your adult problems. Don't keep children away from their mother or father (except that parent is a toxic one) and the extended family should try as much as possible to keep it civil.

7. For the sake of these children. You should listen in if you're in Ibadan. The program is fantastic.