Thread by @Beau_Yet_Godly

You're in a "relationship," and he tells you, "ah! Sis, your husband is going to enjoy you o."

Don't look left, don't look right, take off your shoes and run! Don't worry about coming cars,just RUN!

Get home, dance before God for deliverance from that entanglement/situationship

For the hundredth and twenty second time, what are you doing in a relationship that you DON'T know the end point? What sis, I want to know.

See, when we ask God for signs, let open our eyes to see, let's open our ears to hear, let's open our hearts to understand.

Here is one thing about asking for signs, God is not going to come down to tell you a yes or a no.

God gave us these senses and a brain to interpret. Your eyes see what he does, your ears hear what he says, your heart understand his actions, and even if he's trying to play nice, you're at an advantage because your heart is able to discern.

That relationship you're in now, do you know where it's leading? Or you're just "flowing to see where it will lead?" (you're not river Jordan, Sis) Do you know where it's leading or you're still praying that he will pick you (you're not a snack on a display table please).

Men know what they want, they do. They are not children. He is not afraid of bringing it up, he doesn't just want it.

Are you still pouring in your feelings, and letting him pour butterflies in your tummy, then later when you see invitation you'll say, "all men are..." (whatever they say) is that what you want?

Many times, it is people that are in really close friendship relationships with the opposite sex that experience this.

And that is why even in friendships, you must learn to keep your distance when you should, and define your friendships, so you won't end in a situationship.

Your heart is too important that you ignore these things. Please.

I must say here though, it is very normal that good friends begin to develop feelings for each other, sometimes, that relationship should remain as friendship, other times,

it can "graduate" to become marriage, all depending on how God is leading at that point.

Don't be in-between thinking you are the chosen one and then you get shocked when you meet her. If you're really close friends, talk about the feelings,

and if it means giving a distance, please do.

I have prayed this prayer before, and I will pray it again, may your imaginary Boo not shock you with his wedding I.V. Amin

So when you hear things like...
The man that will marry you is lucky
Your food taste great, I will tell your Boo when he finally shows up
You're very funny, your future husband will love you...

Know ye that he is not the one that is to come.

What other lines should serve as "signs"? We want to hear them.

#B_Y_G