1. Men are creatures of habit, they have a pattern. And once there's a new woman his patterns change. Whilst a woman keeps her cheating cards to her chest. A woman will only get caught when she's done with her current relationship & ready to officially move on...
If we're being honest you never catch a woman cheating, she lets you catch her cheating, so you know she's done with you. A woman will be fucking the same person you see everyday (friend, relative, neighbor) &you wouldn't even know it. Personality, actions & behavior don't change
2. Men are busy. Women never get caught because men are far too busy to be playing detective. Men will be focused on getting money, so a woman can cheat & the guy wouldn't even notice because his mind is on his purpose...
Unlike women who have far too much free time, they can always play detective. On top of that relationship dynamics are never in favor of the guy, remember he has to give attention. Meaning if there's a new woman, that's 2 women who need his attention...
He'll have to come with valid reasons as to why he's excusing himself from his gf/wife so he can cheat. And it doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to notice a pattern of disappearances & that's when the woman will know you're cheating...
3. Last but definitely not least, women don't get caught because the side dude is never trying to replace the main dude. He just wants sex with no drama, he gets to satisfy his sexual needs without having financial & emotional responsibility to the woman...
On the other hand, men always get caught because the side chick wants to replace the main chick. You tell a side dude not to call or text, he won't. You tell a side chick the same, she'll call/text you with an excuse "I'm just missing you"...
4. Women forgive, men don't. Women know this, a man can forgive anything except cheating, so if she ever decides to cheat or she once cheated, she'll make sure the man never knows. She knows it can even end in death for her (not condoning it)...men just can't handle that..
Whilst men know they can always be forgiven at most if caught cheating. It's easier for a woman to forgive a man for cheating, she even expects it if we're being honest. That's why she even gets worried if at no point her man shows suspicious behavior, if he is actually normal
To conclude, we can debate on who can get away with cheating & why but what's actually important is to highlight that cheating is bad. And it results in many things - paternity fraud, diseases & crimes of passion.
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