FIRST OFF: The phrase 'toxic masculinity' did not originate in feminist circles. It was coined by a MAN named Shepherd Bliss, who used it to refer to "the social pressurrs placed upon men to be violent,
So men first coined the term, and then feminists found it and started using it WITHOUT changing its meaning.
In simpler terms, toxic masculinity = being a 'real man' (eye roll)
So now let's talk about 'toxic femininity.'
Feminism is in direct opposition to this.
The irony here is that 'toxic femininity,' is not a real term on its own, but a foil to 'toxic masculinity.'
We already have terms for 'toxic femininity,' and they are the concepts of relational aggression, benevolent sexism, and internalized misogyny.
Benevolent sexism: 'positive' stereotypes, but still damaging (see: ambivalent sexism)
Internalized misogyny: internalized hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women (on an individual level)