a man physically attacking someone because someone referred to them as a "pussy". It took a word for their masculinity to be challenged because compairing them to a woman is the highest of offenses.
Toxic Masculinity is largely about rejecting that accusation.
Women are property to be defended.
Obsessing with beauty is often rewarded in a society that sees beauty as a value- one often suggested to be for men.
Competing for male attwntion, speaks for itself. It's all femininity reinforced by men.
Boys are handed guns and swords and told almost immediately that having them and using them makes them more masculine.