I don’t write dating columns anymore but something has been heavy on my mind & I know there’s someone here that needs to hear it:
IF HE IS NOT MAKING TIME & IF HE IS NOT CONSISENT, HE IS NOT INTERESTED. You are not a conjunction, my love. No if, ands, or...buts.
What was Erica doing? Making excuses.
“He was tired ma.”
“That’s just how he is.”
“Y’all here right?”
Day 3 Dad was like: Heard from what’s-his-face? Text? Email?
Me: He didn’t get the WiFi package!
Day 4 of Dad commentary: So the docks don’t have WiFi?
Me: We need to talk.
He really tried to pencil me in after he got home like we weren’t in a whole relationship. That story wasn’t worth telling but the contrast is important.
Peep this...new boyfriend..
They will be consistent if they’re interested.
They will MOVE MOUNTAINS if they’re interested.
I needed someone to say that over and over again when I was 20-something. So yeah. ☝🏾 That.