1st - Stop muling. Stop the unnecessary, avoidable struggle where we have complete control.
We didn't start the war, but we're not playing offense.
We continue to be complicit in our own devaluation by supporting those who devalue us
As a 41 yr old married black woman who has maintained her figure after childbirth, excellent health, doesn't mule, unstressed & unbothered, businesswoman, who has full time autonomy & building wealth?
I promote US.
And I don't carry any baggage like a mule.
EVERYBODY knows that my dark skin and being a black woman is not impacting MY quality of life negatively.
And I am treated accordingly.
I make it a point to make these men wish they had chosen a black woman or rather, question the artificially propped up value of their own wives.
And THAT is creating status for black women. 👑💅😊
You're just doubling down on it.
All your extra suffering and tolerating b.s. just reinforces perceptions of our/your low status.
Not even our own black men.
And even tho they are often the source of such struggle & suffering, you don't get points for being a revolutionary.
In fact, it lowers your value. Black men don't like their helpers sexually
Marching for them as revolutionaries and being their she-ros makes you LESS desirable.
Men aren't attracted to their "sisters" like that, it's incestual.
So stop calling them your brothers.
And this has been going on, but you don't pay attention.
And men know exactly how to put stupid women to work. ☕
Y'all are so smart, but you haven't figured out that black women are the only group trying to tear this shyt down.
Black men aren't trying to tear this s*** down. They want a piece.
Their actions prove this.
No one wants a FULL revolution but YOU.
Asian women want a spot.
Latinas risk their lives coming here to get a spot.
Black women are the only ones trying to blow up the spot.
With no help.
Just a mule working for everyone but ourselves.
It's called MATH.
HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT IT?