Profile picture
Ralph Napolitano @DrRalphNap
, 13 tweets, 2 min read Read on Twitter
7 Ways to Cure Your Woman Pleasing Tendencies:

1. It’s Not Important That Every Woman Likes You.
2. Get Your Validation From Yourself, Not Her.
3. Learn To Say “No”.
4. Deal With The Aftermath.
5. Be Prepared To Lose Her.
6. Drop The Apologies!
7. Women-Pleasing Creates Anxiety.
1. Realize That’s It’s Not Important That Every Woman Likes You.

It’s not even possible.

There are women you’ll never like.

Everyone has their own set of preferences.

Understand that some women won’t like you no matter what you do.
2. Get Your Validation From Yourself, Not Her.

Those that try to please women are receiving their validation externally.

You don’t need women to make you feel good.

Build up what makes you feel good.

Put your attention on pleasing yourself.
3. Learn To Say “No”.

With practice, it becomes easier to say no to them and yourself.

When she asks to do something that you don’t have time to do, or want to do, say “no.”

When you put pressure on yourself to make her happy, you say “no” to yourself.

It’s that simple.
When you say “no,” you’re saying “yes” to something else.

Suppose you don’t want to go out with her and her friends after work.

By declining to attend, you’re saying “yes” to spending time with your mission, or catching up on your sleep, or something else.
4. Deal With The Aftermath.

What are the negative consequences you’ll face when you begin to refuse inconvenient or unreasonable requests from women?

Expect negativity.

When she’s used to controlling you, she won’t give up that control easily.

Stand your ground!
You can also expect a negative reaction from yourself, mainly guilt.

You’ll get over it quickly.

Hang in there.
5. Be Prepared To Lose Her.

There are women that will just be with you because they can control you.

Once you stop being so accommodating, they’ll move on.

You’re better off without them.
Women will begin to have a new level of respect for you, and you’ll attract a new group of women that compliment your life, not dominate it.
6. Drop The Apologies!

You don’t have to apologize to her because your priorities don’t match her’s.

You have the right to prioritize your time as you see fit.

Avoid apologizing if you don’t have anything to apologize for.
7. Women-Pleasing Creates Anxiety.

You’re more likely to be feel anxiety and guilt when you’re a people-pleaser.

You end up doing too much for her because you’re too concerned about her opinions.

When you try to do too much and be too much, you’re going to be stressed.
And she will eventually lose respect for you.

Learn to get validation from yourself.

You don’t have to please her to feel good about yourself.

Give your own needs your attention.

You deserve as much as she does.
Learn to:

•Foucs In Your mission.
•Be mentally tough.
•Be Your Own point of origin.

Let’s connect:
Missing some Tweet in this thread?
You can try to force a refresh.

Like this thread? Get email updates or save it to PDF!

Subscribe to Ralph Napolitano
Profile picture

Get real-time email alerts when new unrolls are available from this author!

This content may be removed anytime!

Twitter may remove this content at anytime, convert it as a PDF, save and print for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video

1) Follow Thread Reader App on Twitter so you can easily mention us!

2) Go to a Twitter thread (series of Tweets by the same owner) and mention us with a keyword "unroll" @threadreaderapp unroll

You can practice here first or read more on our help page!

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!

This site is made by just three indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member and get exclusive features!

Premium member ($30.00/year)

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal Become our Patreon

Thank you for your support!