1. It’s Not Important That Every Woman Likes You.
2. Get Your Validation From Yourself, Not Her.
3. Learn To Say “No”.
4. Deal With The Aftermath.
5. Be Prepared To Lose Her.
6. Drop The Apologies!
7. Women-Pleasing Creates Anxiety.
It’s not even possible.
There are women you’ll never like.
Everyone has their own set of preferences.
Understand that some women won’t like you no matter what you do.
Those that try to please women are receiving their validation externally.
You don’t need women to make you feel good.
Build up what makes you feel good.
Put your attention on pleasing yourself.
With practice, it becomes easier to say no to them and yourself.
When she asks to do something that you don’t have time to do, or want to do, say “no.”
When you put pressure on yourself to make her happy, you say “no” to yourself.
It’s that simple.
Suppose you don’t want to go out with her and her friends after work.
By declining to attend, you’re saying “yes” to spending time with your mission, or catching up on your sleep, or something else.
What are the negative consequences you’ll face when you begin to refuse inconvenient or unreasonable requests from women?
When she’s used to controlling you, she won’t give up that control easily.
Stand your ground!
You’ll get over it quickly.
Hang in there.
There are women that will just be with you because they can control you.
Once you stop being so accommodating, they’ll move on.
You’re better off without them.
You don’t have to apologize to her because your priorities don’t match her’s.
You have the right to prioritize your time as you see fit.
Avoid apologizing if you don’t have anything to apologize for.
You’re more likely to be feel anxiety and guilt when you’re a people-pleaser.
You end up doing too much for her because you’re too concerned about her opinions.
When you try to do too much and be too much, you’re going to be stressed.
Learn to get validation from yourself.
You don’t have to please her to feel good about yourself.
Give your own needs your attention.
You deserve as much as she does.