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Kim Love @kimmaytube
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When you're a woman in your teens thru early 20s, men are essentially worthless.


1) Death. A woman's greatest risk of homicide is between 15 - 24. Intimate partners. It drops dramatically as you age.

2) Unplanned Pregnancy

3) Derailment of education/career goals
Men in their early 20s aren't looking to settle down, so your relationships likely won't last anyway.

A woman's early 20s pretty much sets the foundation for the rest of her life.

Utimately, you're so temporary in their lives and yet mistakes in that time window will screw you.
So if you're smart and ambitious, you'll use that time to build yourself up.

Acquire an education based on YOUR passions & talents without the distraction of fantasizing some future with a guy that will never pan out (you're temporary).

By mid 20s, you're positioned for better
If you manage to acquire your education, start a lucrative career or business, then you'll have access to a better dating pool.

You won't have to rush settling down for marriage either. You can simply enjoy dating in the upper middle class (bound) dating market.

6 figure bound.
"Cash out" early (weigh yourself with mid-age adult responsibilities) & you may stuck in the scrub market.

There's no excuse today.
The trend of #AssortativeMating now makes the headlines regularly.

It's not a secret. You can't claim ignorance. It's more prevalent than ever.
Y'all are liking so fast, I can't go back and correct my typos. 🤣
In summary, you don't know who the hell you are in your early 20s.

Your brain isn't officially done maturing until 25.

25 is considered your "prime" for looks, but that's subjective if you take care of yourself.

Data show men get serious about relationships between 26- 37.
Prior to that, men KNOW what they're doing.

Enjoying themselves.

They also know that they can delay children, so starting a family isn't something they'll be pressed to jump into.

Esp if they're not financially secure (not talking about scrub dudes- they're non factors here)
For future reference, I'm NEVER talking about "scrub dudes".

I've had exposure to them, but not long enough to fully understand that culture.

I came to my senses fairly quickly.

I'm a 42 yr old who can say I've never got fckd over after the age of 21.

I opted out 22 - 27.
Once I came to my senses & realized how worthless men were in my early 20s.

I stopped dating. I finished school, started a business. Traveled the world.

Then tipped my toes back in at 27.

Dated higher market

Met Kevin at 28.

Married at 30.

Child at 35.

All *intentionally*.
Some will point to the military as exceptions. True. They marry younger. But that's an entire culture unto itself. So I'm not talking abt them. They have their own spaces.

This is mine. I know upper middle class civilian culture. The top 20% - 1% earners. "Modest millionaires"
Anyhow-- this spontaneous thread has gotten long enough.

Here are some receipts…
You don't have to be a marriage -minded woman to enjoy a good life.

It's a *preference*.

I simply find men exhausting. They leave their marks on women. They seem to prematurely age us.

So I couldn't do #SerialMonogamy because I'm longterm goal-oriented and desired a partner.
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