I won't shame someone who is underage for being interested in kink. Hell, I won't shame them for poking around NSFW Twitter, or reading erotica, or watching porn. I get it. Like I REALLY get it. I was there. I was interested from a young age. BUT, here's the thing...
If you're underage & insisting your involvement in certain fetishes (such as DDLG) is "safe" or "not kink" or "not BDSM" because you don't sexualize it, your ignorance is showing in a VERY dangerous way.
If you're underage and creating sexualized audios, photos, and writing, you're endangering yourself and ANY ADULT that interacts with you. Age is not immediately apparent if something pops up on your TL or under a hashtag.
If you're insisting you're involving yourself in NSFW spaces as a minor "for education" yet you are creating and promoting sexually explicit FANTASY MATERIAL, you're not actually here to educate yourself. You're here to get off and no one is fooled.
If you insist that adults are "kink shaming" you by not allowing you, as a minor, in adult-oriented spaces, again, YOUR IGNORANCE IS SHOWING IN A VERY DANGEROUS WAY.
Part of being involved in the BDSM and kink communities is RISK AWARENESS. Not only to yourself, but to others you encounter. It's part of taking responsibility, participating ethically, and ensuring things are consensual.
When adults tell you to keep your distance from BDSM and kink communities when you're still a minor, it's because they're trying to be ethical, they're trying to be responsible, they're trying to keep our community SAFE and CONSENSUAL.
Tl;dr: telling minors not to get involved in BDSM spaces isn't kink shaming. Educate yourself, take responsibility, BE SAFE, and stop making excuses.
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