Yeah, no. Plenty of men out there.
Taking care of yourself, earning enough, emotional fulfilment, safety: those things are at a premium. Work on achieving those. 2/
Those things are best sorted out on your own, and suddenly the world will seem full of more dating options than you’ll ever need. 3/
The right way is that there are many men and any of them can *choose* to become dateable and *work* at it and succeed, so really it’s up to men to do better and measure up. 4/
Men really have no bargaining chip in a society where women are financially independent, socially
How I maybe shouldn’t have left that guy who said he loved me but also destroyed my life. 7/
I need to keep reminding myself that, because the temptation of that narrative is so strong. 9/
I don’t need anybody’s money or status. I’m not here to do free therapy. I’ll do things for my partner out of love and loyalty, which they have to inspire. No other obligation. I’m ok being single. /10