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Ryan Stephens 🥃 @ryanstephens
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I asked my wife what made a man attractive.

This is what she said:
• Physical Appearance
• Confidence
• Protection

Let's dive into each.

Keep in mind these are *her* words, not mine.

👇 A quick thread. 👇
1.) Physical Appearance:

For men, this is almost exclusively women’s looks, but for us ladies, this is usually a more overall ‘package’ of attributes.

There is *one thing* completely in your control that relates to your physical attractiveness: taking care of your appearance.
This reminds me of @WellBuiltStyle's tweet from earlier today (below). Take care of the things you can control.

When you take care of yourself and look your best, you’re more confident.

Which brings us to our next quality.

2.) Confidence:

t is easy to spot a guy who exudes confidence, but subtle confidence is just as attractive. Everyone displays it differently and sometimes it takes longer to come out for certain people. No matter what, though, confidence is sexy. Have it. Flaunt it. Live it.
My husband’s (that's me, yo!) confidence meter is off the chart. (True)

I often have to knock him down a few. But his tell-tale confidence marker right off the bat is his walk. Sounds stupid, has nothing to do with his career, his looks or anything else, but he owns it.
3.) Protection:

Everyone likes to feel safe. Nearly all women will readily admit to wanting security and protection. This is not something that you are going to be able to simply tell a girl. It’s something you must prove to her, over time.
For a lot of women, even though they don’t realize it, this is biology. In fact, women are more attracted to stronger men during their fertility window. Translation: she would rather procreate with a strong male who will protect her and her offspring.
Protection used to mean your partner could protect you from wildlife or invaders from another tribe. The definition is a bit broader now.

It’s not just strength that provides the feeling of protection for women. It could be the financial stability that comes with a high earner
My husband is kind of an asshole.

This tidbit of info can be misconstrued that he treats me badly, but it's not true and anyone who knows him also knows he is the most loyal person you’ll ever meet.

Inner circle? Protected. Mess with that inner circle? Asshole = Very Attractive
In Summary:

You don’t have to be blessed with Ryan Reynolds genes or sense of humor to be attractive. Sometimes it’s about yourself and what is truly in your control
• Take care of your appearance
• Stand and walk with confidence
• Channel your inner protectiveness gene
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