My breasts can bench 220, bro.
Even mention crossdressers first, wow.
Crossdressing is wearing the "wrong" clothes for your gender, for sexual reasons, no?
Maybe you still mostly identify as male, sure... There are men with breasts, after all.
But it no longer strictly counts as cross-dressing, in my opinion.
Not only because, as hobbies/fetishes go, crossdressing is pretty innocuous. Wearing the "wrong" clothes and makeup? Go nuts! Have fun.
Because if you have a binary view of "there are 100% cis men, and there are 100% trans women", you discourage baby steps.
I know more than one trans woman who started out thinking she was just a man who had a cross-dressing fetish, before realizing that it wasn't the sexual part she was into.
Not to sound overly sex-positive here, but great! who cares?
People do lots of weird stuff in the bedroom, putting on "wrong" clothes is at the very bottom rung of the weird or harmful scales.
I'm just saying, it's not as black and white as it seems, but it's not as grey, either.
Trans women are women, not male crossdressers.
But at the same time, if cis men want to cross dress? that's fine. They might be trans, and they should be allowed to experiment.
(even if they aren't trans in the end)
oh right, I do.