We can just check in with them and talk to the kids we have been trusted to protect.
✅ Is there anyone they'd rather not spend time with.
✅ Are they comfortable sharing why?
✅ If not is there someone else they wouldn't mind sharing with?
✅ Do know they don't have to kiss/hug/touch anyone they don't want to, ever?
✅ If they don't want to talk to you about this can you agree on another safe party?
And we can learn how to check in with them better to see what we're missing.
So. let's just. Check.