Because we know how toothless our demands are that men change without incentives & disincentives.
Expecting them to change because it's the "right thing to do". 🙄
That rarely works.
They get nothing out of being better people. Their families aren't rejecting them. Many still get Thanksgiving plates.
Shame doesn't work.
You really think shame is the ultimate persuader. 🙄
In the real world? People behave according to incentives. Economic opportunities. Social ostracism.
For people with nothing to lose?
I'm convinced that you need government involved to socially engineer them since it has created the disease we see in the form of symptoms (harassment)
So in the meantime, I use avoidance...
Even in my own community.
I know the "hot spots" of foolery.
I know which gas stations to avoid.
But 15 years ago, I said to myself that I was not going to endure the fckry from the men I did not create.
Yes. Women are dealing with the men they are simultaneously reproducing.
Where's the lie?
I see it in my own family.
One for sexually assaulting a drunk white girl. And video taping it, threatening to expose
Cause you know, it's the 2010s.
That we can't see who's all involved.
They're doing it out of FEAR.
Fear they could lose their jobs.
Fear they could be sued.
Fear that no women will date or marry them with a "Scarlet M" for misogyny on their chests.
Incentives, not shame.
You've got them messed up.
That's a minority, Boo Boo.
That's not how men, on average, operate.
Pick up a history book.
I'm going by history.
To keep them in line and not terrorizing our society.