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It's not an option in this house.

Meaning, we treat a bachelor's degree as a high school diploma.

Our child is a decade away from college and more high schools are already doing an associate's with your diploma.

He can study *whatever* he chooses. Total freedom in that.
I don't consider it pushing. I consider it setting norms, just as we've normalized acquiring a high school diploma. Is that optional?

Besides, I'm not financially supporting anyone over the age of 18 who's not a full-time college student.

*Not happening*
So if you choose not to attend college full-time while in my home, I can't force it.

But you'd better have a plan because I sure in the hell do.

In 10 years, I'll be 52, downsizing, traveling, reclaiming ALL of my time.

I'm planning my next decade now.🤣

I'll even throw in a "gap year" to travel, intern or explore your passions, etc.

But you will not be sitting up in my home on my dime after I've invested all this money on your private school education.

This ain't a permanent support setup, #SorryNotSorry 🤣

I kid y'all not.

I'm doing my best to stay present during this parenting life phase, but I am vividly dreaming about the future.

I do not plan to have empty nest angst wondering what to do with myself.

I already see the places I'll visit, down to my fitness level & wardrobe.💅
My child and I watch a television series call "Tiny House Nation" and he knows I'm downsizing.

I've put my spouse on notice too.

He doesn't like to aim high with the steering wheel, but I do.

It's how I'm wired.

So he can stay in this McMansion by himself or come along.🤣
I've done the suburban life since 2006. I was 29 years old. Married at 30. Childbirth at 35.

I've been in the suburbs living the McMansion life for 13 years. Add my child going off to college in a decade and that will be 23 years of my life.

I'm not doing this sht forever.
I've said it many times on this platform. I greedy.

I want ALL the experiences.

20's - single, urban professional✔
30's - married childfree ✔
40s - family, suburbia life (in progress)
50s - adventure, exploring, maintaining fitness & health, more time for hobbies, more social
Like after spending 23 years total in a suburban McMansion I'd want to continue on this path.

Please. 🙄 Next experience!

That's why I'm getting my own She Shed in our backyard. I yearn for a small, intimate 100% DECLUTTERED space.

The people I live with are hoarders!!

But in the meantime, as I've said, I'm going to enjoy this phase of raising a child. They grow up so fast.

I'm going to savor it......while simultaneously becoming fluent in 3 other languages, keeping physically fit, eating healthy foods and dreaming VERY big for myself.
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