It is so exhausting, so deadening, flattening, boring to be around. Things are only permitted to get better. Any other possibility- say that NOW migbt be better than later - is a disruptive threat
But they all want to talk happily and confidently about what is next and beleive in their own will and planning and perpetual improvement- & it is, for me, completely alienating
Or I can try to express some small part of my own experience and be viewed as a total buzz kill.
(Except here on twitter I suppose)
Because they are all so busy planning ahead....