And that man is YOU.
Even if you have no standards, you want to appear to have standards. Mimic the common behaviors of high-status men until you become a high-status man and those behaviors come naturally.
and just will accept the first girl that says "YES",
and will just fuck anything that has a hole between her two legs,
then what does that say about you?
put her into a seller-mode,
train her to jump through hoops for you,
and make you come across as a man who has options.
Women value what they work for much more than that which comes easily.
This is a key concept to understand.
First, she is doing simple things like holding your drink,
but before she knows it, she is doing things like sucking your dick.
A pattern of increasing miicro compliance precedes macro compliance.