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1.) You don't know what you want out of marriage and you don't know how to express it.

Seriously, what does a happy marriage mean to you? To your spouse?

Do you *ever* talk about this? Why not?
2.) You don't put as much effort into the marriage as you did planning the wedding.

Honestly ask yourself, "Am I doing my part?"

It's really easy to say "I love you," when you go to work in the morning and go to sleep at night, but are you demonstrating that with your actions?
3.) You're too busy trying to be right or win arguments

This isn't debate competition.

Shoot for resolution, not your personal satisfaction.

Focus on the current disagreement and don't bring up old wounds.

Picture the person you fell in love and argue with THAT person.
4.) You've lost your identity as an individual.

You're spouse is not your *everything.*

And your life doesn't have to revolve around the kids 24/7.

Stay interesting by doing interesting things.

An occasional day away will make you appreciate your family even more.
5.) You're taking your partner for granted.

You've fallen into a routine and allowed things to stagnate.

"I do all these things... they do nothing... I'm a victim."

STOP THIS.

Make a list of all the awesome things your spouse does for you.

You might be surprised.
You're different people.

Of course you're going to think differently & communicate in different ways.

Add in jobs, kids and other obligations and it's no wonder that you have misunderstandings, but don't let that ruin your marriage.

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