If the original thread resonated with you, maybe this will be helpful, too?
My therapist looked at me and said, "You're fawning."
He said, "You can try to be as accommodating, empathetic, and understanding as possible, and it won't change the fact that he tried to harm you, and wanted to."
This was my therapist:
That's the practice, for me. Trust and honor myself. Keep coming back to that. Re-centering, again and again. 💕
We've got this. ✨