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Y'all have to stop conflating privilege with strength. Men aren't stronger than women just because they've been conditioned and allowed to forcibly commandeer every space/conversation they're in. Women aren't weak for choosing not to emulate the rude/oppressive behaviors of men.
It's not a question of assertion. I'm assertive. I'm bold and honest and blunt. But there are often negative consequences when a woman pushes against a man, especially in spaces where men feel that they need to prove themselves or be in charge (e.g. at work, at home, in public).
If I interrupt a man, no one's going to think I'm strong. They're going to think I'm a bitch, or I'm out of line, or rude. I have to consider that always. But many men subconsciously think that whatever they have to say is more important than whatever a woman is saying.
The sexism/misogyny causes the interrupting, the power dynamics of privilege is what keeps women from "being assertive" when it happens. Know what changes that? Men speaking up when other men interrupt. Men creating opportunity for women to be assertive without consequences.
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