I mean, it kinda is, but there's a reason for it. I didn't feel safe around most cis people.
Even without outright abuse, there is still the fact that to get by in this world, most marginalised folks have to assimilate (to an extent that varies by situation).
Even open-minded privileged folks still slip up a lot, often without seeming to notice it. We don't always call it out. Dealing with it constantly is draining.
This idea represents very real needs and very real pain. Existing as a minority in an unequal world is, again, exhausting and painful.
And I need people to realise why, and to not berate / judge us for any time we self-isolate or even just think about doing so.
Because I need to.