See, here's the thing.
But he doesn't insist they don't exist.
But he's never *fought* me on those things.
He's also never insisted these things are *false*.
Seems fine with it, tho.
He didn't, as he did when I told him I was going to transition, say he hoped I didn't "do that to myself."
What *I* don't understand is how he can't look at my life then and my life now and realize how much healthier I am.
But he "doesn't understand."