Sis: Me?... Its a lie... How?... Stop whining me... Me that don't even...
Me: Sis, what is the original problem, tell me dear. I'm listening. Hian?!
Like wow!
There's only one reason people fail to accept compliments - inferiority complex. See, I've been there before, I understand how it feels.
And its funny but not funny that you don't see yourself in that light. I mean, people see your good better than you, and you
still deny it. Wawuu!
I'm sure you guys have heard me talk about myself, and by now you'll think I'm the curviest human on earth😂😂 if you've not heard, wait for it, I'll talk about myself again. (Next post😄)
Is it a lie? No! So what? I'm magnifying my importance and boosting
my confidence. Bad as e bad, there's one unique thing about you (for me everything is unique. Lol).
See, start by doing this:
Take a look at yourself, look at your features, talk about them!! Start from talking casually, let it sink.
Have a sit, write out anything you know
you do so well, your virtues, things you know you're unbeatable at.
Start by magnifying those little things. Even if its one, soon, your eyes would go blind on your 'inadequacies', and guess what? People won't see it too
You're too concerned about that flaw on your skin because
you think everyone is looking at you. You're tiny legs, your protruding tummy, your big eyes, your large nose, your this, your that. Hian?! Camdan!.
See again, one of the ways you can build confidence is seeing yourself through the eyes of God.
Through the eyes of the one who loved you before you were formed! Kai! What else is love? This guy loved you before time began.
It means there's something he saw!
Don't sit there assuming less when people who don't even have up to what you do are making Waves and carrying shoulders.
See dears, you're not ordinary, stop acting like you are. You're special! Special boo, live up to your name!
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,