Imagine being in this self isolation period with someone you "managed" to marry.
Imagine experiencing this self isolation with someone who constantly abuses you.
Then, you could run to your family, how far now?
Imagine sitting in this self isolation with someone who considers you as a liability, doesn't respect you. The hatred, the brewing pressure...
Imagine having to self isolate with someone with whom you have different values and belief systems. Then, you could easily run to church, how about now?
Imagine being alone with someone who curses day in, day out. Then, you could go to a Friend's place till they 'calmed down'
what's going to happen now?
Imagine experiencing this self isolation with a partner who lacks self control.
Then, you could easily use work as a 'get-away' but what happens now?
The truth is, there are partners who are bonding so much right now, getting closer
than they ever were. They're enjoying every minute of this compulsory holiday,
There are other partners who are trying to avoid each other, raising their voices throwing pots and knives at each other.
There are children loving on their parents, while there are some others
wishing and praying fervently that school resumes cos, the bitterness!
I hope this self isolation period gives you reasons never to settle for nonsense.
I hope you know that your decisions are beyond your feelings. Feelings won't save you.
I hope you realize that the future of kids, who'll later become nations are tied to you.
To that girl who's going to say yes to that guy after this period, not because you want to but just to pass time because loneliness wan kee person, I hope you have a rethink.
I hope you remember that you're more than enough,
I hope you realize you're priceless. I hope you don't settle.
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,