Nice guys finish last. Pandering to a woman isn't attractive. Nice guys get no love because women think that no other women must want them either. Female arousal is based on optimisation: that basically means she wants to mate with the guy who other women want to mate with...
A woman wants to be picked from options. She wants to feel ACKNOWLEDGED not WORSHIPPED. She wants to be YOURS not YOUR ONLY. She never wants to be a man’s only option. If she is, she won’t respect him. A woman’s respect hinges on knowing she has to earn her place....
If a woman seeks a man without options. It simply means she doesn’t have much options left herself. Women love a guy who has choices, because he's proven to be a good option & also he's someone worth competing for!!!
