We don't make everyone wear helmets In cars
We let people ski / base jump / ride motorcycles / fly small planes
We let cancer patients decide whether to get another round of chemo
There are tradeoffs and we should clearly understand what they are and discuss them
We let people drive huge SUVs that are more dangerous to others in accidents
We let people with HIV have sex
We (used to) let people with the flu outside, or even go to work!!