It goes without saying, that you should do the things that you would like her to do, and be the person that you would like her to be. The value that you put in, is the sort of value that you would get out. Remember to leverage the reciprocity principle when dealing with women.
It’s important to be aware when the reciprocity principle is being used on you, to avoid falling into a manipulative trap. Although reciprocity-tripping is a tactic that some women use, do not rely on it exclusively to change her behaviors. Appeal to incentives - not the past.
Understanding human nature and sociological factors at play,
being knowledgeable of your own nature,
living a player’s lifestyle,
being good with people in general
are all important keys to being good with women.
being knowledgeable of your own nature,
living a player’s lifestyle,
being good with people in general
are all important keys to being good with women.
A woman is incapable of showing you the same sort of love that you are showing her, or appreciating the extent of your sacrifices for her. However, she is capable of giving value and contributions in her own way - especially when a frame is set that she has to earn your approval.
It is a mistake to let yourself be won too easily. Women don’t appreciate that which comes free; they appreciate what they work for. On the other hand, don’t take this advice to an extreme and fail to show interest entirely. It’s not “needy” to show intent.
This is just one example of balancing seemingly contradictory elements. On one hand, you want to leverage reciprocity but on the other hand: you have to understand that it will only go so far, and it should be used in combination with other tactics, principles, and a gameplan.
If every contingency was explored then this wouldn’t be a collection of tweets, but a book. Short maxims in the medium of tweets is used with the understanding that the wise will take heed and understand the unspoken rationals, while the foolish will misinterpret and ridicule.
