In order for men to get the best out of relationships & life they must VET extensively, I'll discuss what vetting is, how to do it & what to look for.
A LONG ASS Thread.
A LONG ASS Thread.
Vetting is a strategic analysis of MULTIPLE prospects who are to be invested in. A bank won't just give every applicant a loan, a company won't just give everyone a job. There are interviews & checks conducted. Why then do men just give every woman their commitment? Learn to VET!
Whether your goals are a long fulfilling relationship or a seamless, stress free rotation, vetting is important to disqualify undesireable behaviours from women that get in the way of you achieving what you want. Put in a rotation, then decide from abundance, not scarcity.
Women are masters of disguise. They know what's acceptable & what isn't so they cleverly mask their true selves to attract the benefits they want (sex with alphas, provision from betas) . When dealing with women in any capacity, VET. Keep her long enough, the mask comes off.
Men will do anything for some ass, women know this, hence they're the gatekeepers of sex. Do this as well, never commit to a woman who will do less than her best for you. If not, keep her in your rotation & release her when she pressures you. Make her EARN your COMMITMENT.
Vetting for a LTR
1.Always start from a place of abundance. Have 3 or 4 prospects. So no matter how badly you get rejected or disrespected, you can leave with pride. When initially dealing with women be intolerant & uncompromising. As time goes she'll show her true colours.
1.Always start from a place of abundance. Have 3 or 4 prospects. So no matter how badly you get rejected or disrespected, you can leave with pride. When initially dealing with women be intolerant & uncompromising. As time goes she'll show her true colours.
Don't say anything. Just watch. If she shows an undesirable behaviour: clubbing, disrespect, disregard, sexual noncompliance. Disqualify unapologetically. Most men can't because they're desperate & without options. Don't entertain women who are against your personal convictions.
Sex first, then commitment. Very few women are still chaste in society & will withhold sex from you to fake the image of wholesomeness. Within 3 minutes of meeting you she knows whether you'll be an exciting sexual prospect or a boring beta provider. ⬇️⬇️
Women will always have dick available. If a month passes & she hasn't given it up, just know she's getting it elsewhere, let it be, you don't do it for her. Move on. If it works then establish an open non committed relationship & watch how she behaves, at least 6 - 15 months.
Undesirable behaviours.
Loose & friendly with multiple gents
Clubs regularly
Doesn't go out of her way for you -
Loves social media attention
Bad with money
Doesn't listen
Poor hygiene & maintainence
Has spells of being hot & cold towards you - disqualify her
Loose & friendly with multiple gents
Clubs regularly
Doesn't go out of her way for you -
Loves social media attention
Bad with money
Doesn't listen
Poor hygiene & maintainence
Has spells of being hot & cold towards you - disqualify her
Desirable behavior
Prefers being a homebody
Dresses sexy but conservative
Doesn't care much for social media
Desire to please you
Admiration & GENIUNE DESIRE for you
Looks to contribute to your well being/business/work when she can
Like minded beliefs
Completely transparent
Prefers being a homebody
Dresses sexy but conservative
Doesn't care much for social media
Desire to please you
Admiration & GENIUNE DESIRE for you
Looks to contribute to your well being/business/work when she can
Like minded beliefs
Completely transparent
Any behaviour that may give way to cheating/disrespect must disqualify her from a LTR . Once disqualified, keep her around, she will eventually pressure you into a relationship, let her go. Most buckle under the pressure & end up committed out of desperation. DON'T. FOCUS!
