Should I leave this relationship? I'm confused...
Wait. Have you ever wondered how it is that some of the people without Christ still make good choices of who to marry? How come is it that though some have marital issues, some others still marry and enjoy their marriage?
I mean, they go clubbing, have little disagreements, they bare children, and even at old age, they're still balling. How?
You see, God is good. I think this would be a good place to Stan this King again! I stan sir!
He let's the rain falls on both the good and the bad, he provided what we call 'conscience' or instincts for every human being on earth, such that, even though you want to stubbornly fall into a trap, "something" will tell you before hand.
Everyone has this "something." Everyone.
So even in that relationship you've decided to tight to your chest, your mind is calculating, 'something' is telling you, "it's like this Bobo's head is not too correct, it's like I'm not supposed to be here,
are you sure this guy will not give me wahala laidis?"
That voice keeps telling you. You keep seeing red flags, you keep doubting.
The only disadvantage of this instinct however, is it's not always accurate as it could be clouded with some other voices (people, society, and all), and that's where we have the HolySpirit as an advantage.
But I'm not even bringing the HolySpirit into this yet.
By yourself, analyze the issues you can see.
Why is your heart troubled, why is it giving you stress? Why can't you go a day without crying because of him? Why is he insulting you today, and calling you baby tomorrow?
S'ogun laye ni? (is life war?) We're not done...
Is he the kind of man you want your children to be like? Why are you finding it difficult to call his name when praying for your future husband?
I hope you're with your pen as you read. Oya write out, pour your heart into the paper. Are you done? Add two and two together, cancel the zeros, cross multiply, what's the answer?
If by yourself, you don't have peace, you can't even drink water in peace in the relationship, please, do what I say now:
Pull your slippers (designer or bathroom, it's fine) hold it in your hand, or no, throw it away, now SARE (RUN!).
Don't look back please. Let's avoid turning to a pillar of salt.
If as you read this, you can relate with these words, I pray the Spirit of God breathes to you the strength you need.
You deserve peace, I hope you choose peace❤
#B_Y_G#BYGRelationship
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I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,