You are wrong my rakshasi friend...
Shri Krishna did not leave vrindavan till 14. Also Devi Rukmini was to wed to someone. Else whom she didn’t not agree, but was being given no choice. She sent a message to krishna to tell him.
Shri Krishna did not leave vrindavan till 14. Also Devi Rukmini was to wed to someone. Else whom she didn’t not agree, but was being given no choice. She sent a message to krishna to tell him.
Here is Devi Rukmini's letter to Shri Krishna: 
He then met went to her in her courtyard (where she told him to meet her). He asked her if she wanted to marry him (krishna) by choice and she said yes. He did not get off his chariot but told her if this is her free will then she must come to his chariot by herself,
with her Dasis as witness. She was 16. Later her brothers and father accused him of kidnapping her and he disagreed. He said that in this era woman will be oppressed most harshly by being forced against her will, her consent for marriage will no longer be asked.
Therefore if she elopes or chooses to marry without consent of her parents, that decision is higher than what her parents want. She is her own person and in regards to marriage and any other autonomy, she has the rights and freedom to make her choice with or without blessings.
So bruh, instead of getting all emotional, do you research further than one documentation that sits your ideology. At the end of the day it doesn’t even matter what you or anyone believes.....
But before being hypocrite about Dharma being followed blindly, take your time and find multiple sources for your own beliefs.
