"He is the 3rd child, I'm the 3rd child too. His password is 1234, mine is 4321, he likes to sing and I like to sing too. We're just so alike!"
Wait, this is why you want to marry Him?Because of similarities? How do you want your prayers please? By fire, by force, or by thunder?
These things I tell you all may seem unbelievable, but trust this, they're true😂. Where do I even start?
Should I talk about the time I was in the University and I gave this brother my debit card to use, I had to give him my pin cause he needed it, when he came back,
he exclaimed, "Sissi, this could be a sign for us! Your pin is *4321, mine is *1234 (not real pin though, but our pins followed a pattern).
Before the time, he had already made his relationship intentions known to me, and I was still watching and praying.
That day, I was in shock! Is marriage now by ATM pin? 😂😂😂
It made me remember the first time I heard something similar, I was in Junior High School when this girl (let's call her Shola) was trying so hard to get this new boy in our class like her.
She used this to mark her territory just because I stood a chance of getting liked by the guy. She was like, "he's the 4th born, and I'm the 4th too. His hand writing and mine are alike, his mother is yen, my mum is yen yen yen"
I stayed off even though the guy wouldn't stop liking me😂. I reminded her in our senior class and he hissed and hated herself for making that statement. Here was I in the University hearing the same line. My pin is lolo, your pin is olol. Oga please allow me see front😂
Fam, anything can be a sign. Anything. It's your duty to recognize which one is carnal and which is spiritual. Don't be led by these things, we're not babies please.
What does God's word say? Who is he? Does God approve of Him? Does he have the qualities of being a child of God? Where's he headed.
Scrap all these he's this and I'm that. Coincidence can happen, anything could have happened. Those are not the real deal.
What "signs" have you held on to? Don't you think you should re-access them?
Any sign that cannot hold water when tough meal comes should be released to the wind of life please.
May our marriage be sweet as honey. May it not end in tears. Amin😌
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,