“Pain, if sanctified, creates tenderness toward others.” #Spurgeon

Everyone gets traumatized. In the moment, we all recoil in pain. Then comes the time for deciding. Will my heart turn hard or tender? Will I learn or break, stand or fall? Will I run to God or away from him?
Love & pain enter thru the same door in your heart. Open to one, open to the other. That’s the risk, the price of loving. There’s another caveat, however: The pain which already cankers your soul has no way out, except thru the same door. To heal, you must open. You *must*.
If your heart must open to heal, & if new pain must be, you must train your pain to instruct: What can I learn from this? In what ways can I forgive? How can I handle trauma as Christ would? Will I accept this lesson that I may better identify with my suffering neighbors?
Maybe you’ll need a moment to fall apart behind the door. But leave it unlatched. Let the light come through. And when you’re done crying, throw it open again with courage. Defy the devil’s victim mentality. Risk again. Love again. Trust again. God is in this. You are not alone.

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