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Jul 7, 2020 5 tweets 1 min read Read on X
Observations. #90.
"Great Expectations"
1/n

Parents of sons (especially mothers) are often passive-aggressively told that boys need to be taught to respect girls/women. I get it. I agree.
Unless we change boys, society cannot change. However, for society to change, girls +
2/n

need to change too. So here's my question to society: how about girls be taught to respect themselves? To know not to seek validation in a boy/man & put up with all kinds of nonsense in the hope that the caterpillar turns into a knight in shining armor? Jeez. Relax. +
3/n
He's just a boy. The duffer is just as clule-less as you are. Stop hoping he will solve all your problems. How about teaching your girls that if he treats you like crap, you dump his sorry ass instead of blaming the world: "he's such a spoilt mama's boy... +
4/n

all because of Indian culture... blah blah." No. STOP. Newsflash: He's just a boy.

And for heaven's sake, just like you expect from boys, teach your daughters to cook. It's a survival skill... like swimming.

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Oct 26, 2021
1/
70% is the problem. Sorry. No one can save those bent upon decimating themselves. Eroding & gaslighting themselves.
Even those Indic wingers who blame Modi-Shah are dumbistanis. Sorry.
What happened this weekend in cricket, in the backdrop of the anti-Hindu riots in B'desh
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has sealed my belief that Hindu society has brought this upon themselves. Like a battered housewife who continues to blame herself for the beatings, Hindu society does the same.

Countless discussions on WA. Responses on FB, all prove that Hindus have internalized Stockholm
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Syndrome.

Yes, there's truly no enemy except the enemy within. MJ said it: man in the mirror.

Peacefuls will be peaceful when Hindus will take pride in themselves *while* maintaining the demography.

Otherwise, why bother ... just roll over and lie down.

No use blaming
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I don't even know where to begin with this; but let's just start with false equivalence, shall we?
When Newton identified gravity, he was *shunned* by the Catholic Church. Notwithstanding the fact that Newton was a Christian.
In fact the church 👇
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shunned *anything* scientific. A struggle that continues, in some fronts, even to this day. (Ask the Evangelicals about the creation of earth. LOL.)
So the true statement would be that Yoga is as Hindu as the Adam & Eve story is Christian!

How can @SadhguruJV or anyone
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And if your aim behind
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Most of us are lucky & never see this, but I do know a few people whose parents emotionally stunted them due to (unintentional?) abuse.

I've heard stories of a distant relative who insisted that his kids speak only in English with each other. This was back in (1/)
India in the 50s & 60s. The kids were SHAMED & punished if they broke into the vernacular by mistake.

Can you imagine that?

Today, while their English is ok 😏, I see these folks (now in their 60s and 70s) struggling to establish/maintain connections with their own
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(3/)
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Make no mistake; folks like Divya Dwivedi are the ones who practice caste-based discrimination.

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spotlight, & staying relevant.

As folks from all social groups advance their status in India, these people feel threatened. So they have to spin these stupid narratives. It's a desperate cry for attention.

Ideally, we should ignore them. However, Unfortunately, given the (2/)
media spaces that they occupy, we cannot. So we must *absolutely* call them out.

They are BIGOTS. They are hate-mongers. They are pathetic social snobs.

They "other" Dalits.
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I love the poetry of Ram Dhari Singh Dinkar, & this is my favorite. 💕 & the reference to Shri Ram🔥

क्षमा, दया, तप, त्याग, मनोबल सबका लिया सहारा
पर नर व्याघ सुयोधन तुमसे कहो कहाँ कब हारा?

क्षमाशील हो ॠपु-समक्ष तुम हुये विनीत जितना ही
दुष्ट कौरवों ने तुमको कायर समझा उतना ही
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अत्याचार सहन करने का कुफल यही होता है
पौरुष का आतंक मनुज कोमल होकर खोता है

क्षमा शोभती उस भुजंग को जिसके पास गरल है
उसका क्या जो दंतहीन विषरहित विनीत सरल है

तीन दिवस तक पंथ मांगते रघुपति सिंधु किनारे
बैठे पढते रहे छन्द अनुनय के प्यारे प्यारे
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उत्तर में जब एक नाद भी उठा नही सागर से
उठी अधीर धधक पौरुष की आग राम के शर से

सिंधु देह धर त्राहि-त्राहि करता आ गिरा शरण में
चरण पूज दासता गृहण की बंधा मूढ़ बन्धन में

सच पूछो तो शर में ही बसती है दीप्ति विनय की
संधिवचन सम्पूज्य उसीका जिसमे शक्ति विजय की

3/
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First things first: good riddance to bad rubbish; I am glad Mathangi S no longer considers herself a Hindu.
(Could you please stay the eff out of defining it as well?)

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