Today I wanted to talk about respect and love for women but the truth is even though the world overtime give less respect to women, only women of value can gain respect from the society.
No one would place value on you when you think bad of yourself i.e having a low self esteem.
First,a woman of value is valued because she values herself!
Sis,you are beautiful know that,stop letting people tell you,you are not❤
The value you place on yourself is the value you receive from others so when you place no value on your self and care less about your image you will definitely receive less value from people and everyone would want to trample on you.
Don't let anyone make you feel less sis, you are chosen and redeemed❤🔥🔥
Growing up I had a low self esteem and this made me weak in front of everyone,many people took this as an advantage but when I began to value myself the story is all changed. Ekis me,I now know I have been redeemed,saved and delivered gon😆😆
☑One of the ways to get a high self esteem is loving yourself Sissi if no body love you love yourself o❤
Many women lose value because they don't love themselves,their identity,their body shape etc so they eventually do not get people to love them for them.
☑Don't compare yourself with others:You are different,unique and important.
☑Don't worry about what people have to say and forgive yourself for your mistakes and move on if you have to.
☑Work on your fears and work towards becoming a better and stronger woman but in this process make sure you let go of toxic relationships those who place no respect or value on you.
☑Keep good friends who have the same goals with you and value friendships.
☑Love God and serve Him because it is in Christ you will get a fulfilled life.
Just to let us know sisters,dressing half-naked on social media and on the streets adds no value but instead reduces the respect you should receive,please cover yourself, you can slay in Christ o inugo💃
This morning, I woke up to God’s word reminding me of the importance of process, waiting, building and staying to learn what He is teaching me as my teacher.
We may come that point where we almost feel like the Lord is not there because what we have asked for is not forthcoming, you may even feel discouraged but it is settled that the Lord never forsakes His own, not even in the fire!
So what about you? Do you eventually see God as wicked or unjust because He is not answering all your prayers? Are you that Christian who quickly becomes faithless when you are not seeing results?
Job said “Even if you slay me”
Esther said “If I perish I perish”
The three Hebrews boys didn’t mind if God saves them or not and Daniel wasn’t scared of dying in the lion’s den.
How comes we are only for God when it’s favorable? What happens to the process of waiting and learning? Just like David and Joseph, God may take you through a process before the palace.
Just like Abraham, you may have to wait for years to enter into God’s promises for you. We must learn to love God beyond what He can do for us, follow Him because He is God not just for earthly desires!
If you are serving God because you want to get something from Him, one day you will wake up angry because you may not get all you desire but when you just love and trust Him, you may not get all you desire but you will get all that's best for you.
We serve God because its our life, we owe everything to Him. So just like the three Hebrew boys, Esther, Daniel, Apostle Paul etc.
It is not about how much God can give to them but how committed and sold out they are to God.
God wants us to come to that place where our confession becomes "If I perish I perish! I cannot choose my life or my desires above you Lord. I love you with everything".
This is the kind of growth God is calling us into🔥
Dear Christian,
The flesh is self exalting, it is self demanding! When the spirit says PRAY, the flesh will say you need to rest. When the spirit says BE CALM, the flesh will give you a hundred reasons not to! If you want to serve God, you must die to FLESH🙇
The flesh always wants to show how much it has achieved for God with small pride.
It wants to be able to show emotions, do whatever it wants without self control.
It doesn't even want corrections from God or the scriptures.
The flesh doesn't want to stay without food so if you want to satisfy it's desires, you cannot fast. You can stay for a whole busy day without eating but come and fast na, you will start shaking😂
I was having a conversation with one Unku who was showing some Interest me and I noticed how he was trying to mention God into everything he was saying, yes he wanted me to see how he knows God but I was not fast to conclude o!
I gave it time, I listened to all he had to say and I could see that he was trying to use the fact I was a child of God to make me feel comfortable but it wasn't so long before I could hear him condemn the standard of purity we are keep as believers!
Oh really, the same brother who sounded so God-loving could say there's no need to waiting until marriage if your family already knows about the relationship! God help us.
I was at a wedding yesterday, but I wasn't fast to say the God When anthem, not because it wasn't a beautiful wedding or because I don't anticipate marriage but because I know there is so much requirements for a GOD KIND OF MARRIAGE.
We all want to be loved by somebody's son or daughter, we want a beautiful house, we want to be loved and receive beautiful gifts from our partners. I want that too but wait fes, is that all?
What God has planned for us is way more than gifts, houses, flowers or even vacations. What God has planned is a home that will glorify Him.