I ask for a word. Will you please let me speak?
I know your attention's worth far more than mine,
So I wrote you a poem, and won't waste a line.
#ThatLetter
harpers.org/a-letter-on-ju…
And documentation revealing specifics.
Since others have outlined the steps of these dances,
My line of attack will be focused on transes.
The greater context is, in fact, my objective.
That Letter has problems no defense can fix:
It makes lots of perps out to look like they're vics.
gen.medium.com/amp/p/e840fa55…
Abusing terms coined to pursue social justice,
Projecting supremacy on to their targets
To muddy the waters of idea markets.
medium.com/@acvalens/free…
With stunningly rapid-fire articulation.
Their wrongness and speed make it hard to develop
A counterattack to the classic Gish Gallop.
rationalwiki.org/wiki/Gish_Gall…
Would lie in debates against real scientists.
The audience soon felt their heads must be spinning
For want of the knowledge to tell who was winning.
Who by now have blown our obstreperal lobes.
For how can you argue with someone who lies
And refuses to try other views on for size?
blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/about-twisty/
For women & girls who society spurns.
The patriarchy is a man-made disaster!"
To this, I agree: let's dismantle it faster!
That I must be some kind of sicko rapist
Who wants to invade women's spaces, and likes
To "trans little girls" (to exterminate dykes).
fairplayforwomen.com/pronouns/
economist.com/open-future/20…
But one who used methods that just weren't the best.
His two-type trans woman typology premise?
Gay male homophobes, and straight men with a fetish.
rationalwiki.org/wiki/Autogynep…
Which methods pass muster, and which crash & burn.
Before his debunking, though, one Janice Raymond
Got US insurance denying trans claimants.
transadvocate.com/fact-checking-…
But nevertheless, they say, "Trans folks aren't valid."
There is no avoiding such discourse stagnation,
Without rules enabling strong moderation.
theverge.com/2018/7/12/1756…
They sneer at our sources and say they're coopted.
So gather your sources - no really, have fun!
Track down Blanchard's claims and debunk every one.
humanumreview.com/articles/the-t…
juliaserano.com/av/Serano-Case…
Or start a file named "Trans Source Regurgitator."
Present all your research, you know what you'll hear?
Not "thanks," "neat," or "interesting" - just TL;DR.
Has built a foundation of QUILTBAG alliance.
There's no science basis for transphobic nonsense,
Yet transphobia is relentlessly constant.
reddit.com/r/lgbt/comment…
That trans bathroom rights do not increase abuses.
The "fears" MassResistance cites when we're accosted,
They finally admitted, were largely concoted.
freedommassachusetts.org/study-no-incre…
pinknews.co.uk/2018/12/07/ant…
Is met only with discourse impedimenta:
Lies, smoke & mirrors, distortions - and one
True story of ways we get lobbying done.
spectator.co.uk/article/the-do…
For when civil rights struggles have gone too far?
We're told, when we draw from historical cases,
"You're lying! Appropriating! And you're racist!"
charlotteobserver.com/opinion/op-ed/…
Because they track closely with oppressive tactics
That once were employed against black folks and queers.
This isn't now fair, just because it's been years.
slate.com/human-interest…
Is brought up in most of this transphobic piffle.
"Most people are scared," so they say, "and choose silence,
Instead of exposing themselves to male violence!"
belonging.berkeley.edu/blog-revisitin…
Whose speaking events took her hither and yon.
She switched to their side cuz some trans folks are mean.
That's quite understandable, from what I've seen.
medium.com/@amydyess83/pr…
Of feminism half a cent'ry ago.
They say that all women can choose to be gay,
And thereby block menfolk from getting their way.
Especially when I hear them wax poetic.
"Choose to be gay! Come on in! Water's fine!"
Just like Julie Bindel wrote back in '09.
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2…
Are political lesbians ignoring biology?
Behind all the ruckus, above all the fray,
Are people who think it's a choice to be gay!
splcenter.org/20160525/quack…
To say that trans women are out of our gourds.
Trans men, they admit, have some tough shoes to fit in;
But nevertheless, gendercrits call them women.
jayhulme.com/blog/transmen
This isn't a secret, they say it out loud.
Just look for yourself, there's no need to trust me:
They're hate groups on watch by the SPLC.
lgbtqnation.com/2017/10/christ…
splcenter.org/fighting-hate/…
They'll turn to gay marriage and queer rights at large,
Criminalizing us ad infinitum
'Til we'd rather live in the closet than fight 'em.
reddit.com/r/AgainstHateS…
For speaking your truth, just to have it disputed.
I know that pain well, for I've suffered it, too.
So now comes the question: what do we do?
When you speak your mind and it makes the world mad.
But look through my eyes, and I think you will see that
It's not persecution, it's just public feedback.
"Perspective" does not mean your feelings are handled.
Sit with your discomfort, until you can own it,
And build solidarity out of this moment.
Forgiveness will come, and what's more, I assert
The people from whom you've been alienated
Will mostly be happy (and some, quite elated).
I've one last perspective I'd like you to try on.
Imagine a future where love truly wins:
Your choices today could be how that begins.
Redemption arcs rock, but they're painful at first.
It might be through letters, or movies, or art -
It's not complicated, just open your heart.
I thank you for reading and hope you had fun.
But please think about all the words that I've said.
If we don't work together, we can't move ahead.