▫️girl to woman
▫️boy to man
We the grown kids have crossed over
This much we do know
Everything is an investment
Your time, energy,network, your body & your decisions
Here’s what we’ve found👇🏾
Be prepared to leave some people behind
‘But ify, we schooled together, this is my padi’... bla bla bla
Stop wasting your time
If he or she is not speaking the language of your future, leave them in your past
Association will build or tank you
Yes, any beautiful face, shape or personality you think you have, I guarantee you someone else has it too.
You will need to think outside the box, to stand out.
Start with building your value then add creativity.
You must learn to earn.
So stop trying. Like right now, stop every effort to impress anyone. This is tough, I know. But take this one from me, your effort is best placed elsewhere. Let your energy be in places where it can grow.
It will never grow in the opinion of others
Honor it. It is the anchor. It is the only home you will ever 100% own. Don’t useless it with man made traps (smoking, drinking, random fornication). You and you alone will face the repercussions.
Love yourself enough to respect yourself.
The highs will be high. But darling, the lows will be low. You must be mentally & spiritually strengthened. Start with auditing your exposure. Limit outside noise & work on the person within. Read, Listen, Learn.