Thread by @InshallahSZN

The paradigm of money & women is one complex & often misunderstood concept. When dealing with women, money should never be spent in absence of genuine desire. Lemme break down why men fail with women irrespective of whats in their bank account

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Women are creatures of comfort, emotion & sensory stimulation. She doesnt care about the money in your account, she cares about what YOU & IT can make her FEEL. If you can't make her FEEL anything, she'll just continue taking your money & will go to a man that makes her pussy wet

When spending on a woman, men do one of two things, either NEGOTIATE transactional desire or FACILITATE genuine, lustful desire. By all means, avoid being a negotiator.

A NEGOTIATOR is a man that takes pride in his ability to provide UNRELATED to how he can make her feel. These are most men who are ballers, buy cars & gifts thinking they make her happy, but her SOURCE of happiness are the things your money does, not YOU!

A FACILITATOR is a man who can evoke emotions & attraction based on his own ESSENCE. He is the SOURCE of happiness for her & spends money only to FACILITATE that.

Difference between a facilitator & negotiator is one spends to get on her good side, the other spends to make himself happy & she enjoys being around that fun environment. Negotiator uses money to get/maintain affection. A Facilitator to reward/remind her how great he is.

How does it look
NEGOTIATOR - will buy gifts, fancy dinners & pay her bills while expecting loyalty & love. Gents, this isnt the 50s, in 2020 women are making the same if not more than you. ONLY being a provider isnt good enough anymore

Nowadays, a woman will enjoy the benefits of a provider while giving herself to men who she REALLY wants. Most beautiful women have providers in the form of husbands, bfs, friendzone simps. If you are a man who's really special. She doesn't NEED your money. Just your ESSENCE.

Negotiators will often say, "Rich men get more sex" yea they do. But who gets better sex, an man who weaponises money, or a man she has complete lust & admiration for? Whos getting sloppier head? Whos getting wetter pussy? More genuine compliance?

FACILITATOR- He uses money to showcases his worth. A salsa party where he's the best dancer, a poetry show where he recites an erotic poem & gets the ladies in the crowd to swoon. In both cases he shows more of his value than a dinner date where he talks about his job & money.

When he spends big, its because he feels like it & it has nothing do with making her like him more because he already knows she does. He is the attraction & the money he spends are just add ons & FACILITATORS of already existing emotions.

Spoiling YOUR woman is NOT WRONG if you think she deserves it. When you do, ask yourself, is it because you're rewarding her for following & doing as you please, or is it because you want to get on her good side? Intent behind the action can ehnace the quality of its performance.

In a world where there are richer men than you & women who can pay for themselves, why would you want to lead with your wallet? All you do is take care of her material needs & wants, she can do that herself. What of her needs for fulfilment, sensual & sexual stimulation?

Why doesn't she buy you things? Why doesn't she take you on trips? Why wont she spoil you? She makes similar amounts right? I know why, because SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE YOU DESERVE IT BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT THE PRIZE.

If you truly believed you were, you wouldn't need money. A lot of men dont believe in themselves. They feel as though money is essential to win with women. It definitely makes it better, but ask Dr Dre, Will Smith & Johnny Depp about it. Money doesn't keep her enthralled, YOU DO!

The era of women being impressed by your money long term is gone. They can get it themselves from working or other men. Most rich guys are simps that lead with their wallets. This is a big problem because those women have no lust & admiration for those men.

Everytime a woman has sex with you out of anything other than desire, she resents you a little more everytime. It's no wonder after a few years of marriage she's cold & hateful & takes you for all you have. The absence of lust & admiration is breeding ground for a nightmare

I actually believe feminism started because women were tired of submitting & fucking husbands they dont respect & desire & wanted to work make money themselves cause they were tired of having to fall in line to inferior men for provision. This is why L & A are essential.

Focus on your 5M's, make money, but DON'T HIDE BEHIND IT. You must dominate her mind & body with your being to get the best of her or you wont get the quality of relationships you desire. Work on yourselves, your persona, your game. Money is a WHOLE LOT, but it isnt EVERYTHING.