1: Be a pleasant individual and
2: Have an interest in the aesthetic, mindset, or adjacent kinks.
That is all. There is no perscription for how a HexDrone looks, what they eat, when they sleep, who they associate with.
It is important that this is brought up, because lately I've seen people 'make this their entire life' and that is a REALLY bad take.
It also is detrimental to those of us who wish to associate and participate.
I cannot stress this enough!
A dating site
A mental care facility or therapist
A perscriptive entity that teaches life lessons
A stomping ground for sexual interaction
A safe space
A community for like-minded kinksters to seek fulfillment for a niche spectrum of kink
However, we do certainly not substitute for a healthy personal lifestyle.