Thread by @GirlGoldened

SJW Twitter can try to drag me for that Tweet but I stand by it
All of you speaking death on Black Women's stock, projecting your pain, feeding propaganda to BW who are in their prime and trying to make our image permanently synonymous with misery, your day of reckoning is coming

We have tolerated and stood by many of you outcasts. But in return, all you did was pump out "Black Women were never seen as Women", "Black Women are naturally more masculine", "WW will always be seen as better than Black Women", "Hypersexuality is in Black Women's DNA" campaigns

Many of these Black female SJWs have gotten away with saying depreciating things about BW that no other race could ever say without consequences.

Many of you are allergic to self-reflection and that will be your downfall. You view being black as a curse and permanent disability

There is a sect of Black Female underisables (who have branded themselves as such) trying to speak for all Black Women - one which I addressed today.

Be very clear: I didn't say she's automatically undatable.

But it's a fact: these BW will have very different dating experiences

I don't think she's genetically unlucky .. or completely undatable bc of her weight. Conventionally unattractive slim people exist.

Some people said: it's also the "terrible weaves", "her make up is 5/10", "horrible fashion", "spanks showing" and " herself esteem is in the tank"

You gremlins will learn one day that men love attractive women, period. If you're attractive they'll swipe on you. It's nothing to do with Blackness.
Attractiveness is 90% effort, 10% natural.

SJWs want a world where they can be sloppy & carefree, forgetting that men are shallow

Now unto the wretched OKCupid study you merchants try to use as a "gotcha" moment.

I'll be damned the day I let a 12yr old, 2000 participant study from America (where most Black Women are chronically obese + the epicentre of unflattering promotion of BW) shape my self esteem.

The day Black Women come clean about the reality that our image is in TATTERS globally, will be a glorious day.
You demand nothing of your men - no protection, provision, infrastructure or legacy. You give your wombs cheaply to men who exalt the image of another man's mother.

You tell the world day-and-night that you will remain committed to those men through abuse, poverty, pain ... and even when they murder you. You are the underclass of Women.

If you think men are envisioning the IMAGE of Black Women in 2020 as an ideal partner, you're mistaken.

There are men who have expressed interest in invidual Black Women after they had stated that they weren't interested in Black Women.

Black Women need to understand that there is a *stereotype of you. The stereotype is not you, but it exists. And there is a massive difference.

This is the result of allowing your image to be the “strong” single mother, sexually loose hood rat or fat, black sassy sidekick.

Men don’t envision their *perception* of you as their ideal romantic partner.

Black Women in america have the highest obesity rate and often use online dating as a last resort. Once those factors are controlled, the disparity in engagement towards Black Women isn't big.

There are individual BW who have invested in themselves and have a better experience.

There are archetypes that have been tying the collective of Black Women down. Is it fair? No. But image matters. Representation becomes reputation.

Some of you Black Women are busy trying to "get thick", forgetting that thickness is only an asset in the Black Community.

We will be stereotyped. But while other races were giving themselves positive stereotypes i.e. “good at mathematics, only date wealthy men, cares for the elderly, good credit”, some Black Women were busy waving the flag of "slurp master", thinking it wouldn't bite you in the 4ss.

There are so many other women who don't fit white beauty ideals and yet don't seem to be paralyzed by this.

Asian women (despite not sitting on a pedestal of whiteness), navigate dating favorably because they have degrees, BMI under 25 and are young and OPEN to dating non-AM.

I keep saying: Black Women are not unattractive because of how we look. It's everything to do with how we act and who we are aligned with. BW are the counterparts of the most conquered men on earth.
And BW have a dangerously low selfesteem which we let the world know repeatedly.

Just going to add:

About that OKCupid study

- most of its users were middle-aged
- We don’t even know what kind of of Black Women were shown from age range, skin color, body type , hair texture etc
-We don’t even know the races of men made up the majority share of voters

Noone doubts that racism plays a part in how BW are received. Sometimes it does.

Also some people prefer their own.

It's not strictly to do with our facial features. It's often ppl not wanting black offsprings due to social/political/phenotype burdens associated with blackness.

Even this Black Man wants BW to stop hiding behind race and blaming everything on it.

Ralph Richard Banks, Stanford Professor has BEEN telling BW to explore their options.

His research found that there are more non-BM interested in BW than the entire population of America.

Here he addresses that OKcupid study yall love to throw around without context and common sense, breaking down exactly why Black Women shouldn't be so glad to market ourselves as left-overs.

Again, a Black Man.

For more, check out his book: "Is Marriage for White people?"

So no, I will not eat up your woke bullsh*t about Black Women being unwanted, under the guise of activism.

I will not allow you to make Black Women the permanent face of struggle and rejection, when MY reality and the reality of other Black Women has been starkly different.

Instead of owning your own pain, you want to drag BW down with u.
By marketing BW as leftovers, you harm us by

1. reducing our stock further bc noone wants leftovers
2. turning us into romantic refugees
3. inviting people to think they can take advantage of BW bc we're desperate

And while you're doing this; making viral tweets about being ugly because of your race, other races of women are cheering bc they know what self-preservation and competition is. They're feasting on your low selfesteem, using it as an ego boost and laughing at you in your absence.

Whatever you outcasts are going through, please take that shit up with God. Stop lying on all of us.

I'm not sparing any of you. If noone else will tell you about yourselves, I will, and none of you SJWs can "phobia" me into silence.

It's enough.

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