Then I consider some of the community brothers who rise to celebrity-level prominence with not HALF the leadership, organizing, emotional, interpersonal, spiritual skills+strength of these women
So-and-so would be next-level prominent in the community if she were a man
With some power, her skills and experience would make real change in our orgs, our communities, our mosques!
and I get mad.
Contrast with how abusers & racists are uplifted & defended.
what does she wear? how attractive is she? (she should not be too attractive) what race? what languages?
TOO MANY beards on your event flyers. I want to see the women who do ALL THE WORK in the background. Who have been figuring out what needs fixing & how.
I want them-not moderating panels full of beards-but leading & making decisions.