The *reality* of domestic abuse during lockdown: exclusive research for tonight’s @BBCPanorama shows someone called police for help about domestic abuse every THIRTY SECONDS
as soon as the PM announced lockdown on that night back in March, one of my first thoughts was - what about those living with a violent partner or parent? They would be trapped at home with their abuser effectively 24/7
Those calls to police came from right across the UK, & came from both women & men.
The first in-depth research on the impact of lockdown on DA has been carried out by @womensaid for Panorama.
Two thirds of those living with an abuser said violence got worse under lockdown
I met ‘Jess’ who had been in a long, violent marriage. After Boris Johnson told us all to stay at home, her husband turned to her and said, chillingly, ‘Let the games begin’.
She said that during lockdown he raped her over a 100 times.
3 wks into lockdown he told her she wouldn’t see daylight again. Jess (not her real name) was terrified, & knew she had to get out or she’d be leaving her home in a ‘wooden box’.
There was a further problem - her husband never left her alone in a room - so she couldn’t call 999
When her husband was asleep on the sofa, she took her chance. Terrified, she googled ‘how to contact police without calling them’ - then she texted REGISTER to 999, and after receiving an initial response, she sent them her address. Officers arrived within minutes, thank god.
@JournoJoJo@emmaailes@AlysEliza & I have spent months talking to survivors & domestic abuse workers for tonight’s programme. Not one of them said they’d seen any evidence that government had considered the risks of domestic abuse before announcing lockdown.
‘If you look at who was in the Cabinet, it's a lot of very privileged men. So maybe it's not an issue they think about’
It was 19 days after lockdown was imposed before government announced £2m extra for domestic abuse helplines & launched the ‘you are not alone’ social media campaign. Fiona Dwyer says ‘inaction & slowness to respond’ made an already challenging situation harder for them
In other research in @BBCPanorama many survivors say lockdown and covid19 was used by their abuser as a way of controlling them.
Jess managed to escape and is now safe in a wonderful refuge run by a small charity in Wales called @LlamauUK . The staff there are AMAZING. They are skilled, dedicated and just lovely. And there’s a strong bond between the survivors who support each other.
But @BBCPanorama reveals that there were 1100 fewer available beds in refuges compared to this time last year - that’s a drop of 42%. They were hit by staff shortages, social distancing rules and a lack of PPE.
The government did give millions to domestic abuse services eventually - & most received the emergency funding they applied for. Safeguarding Minister Victoria Atkins told me they weren’t ‘slow to act’, that they had been ‘very much alive’ to DA risks under lockdown
The Men’s Advice Line for male victims of domestic abuse saw a rise of 65% in calls between April and July 2020 compared to the same period last year. Calls to a helpline run by Galop for LBGT+ victims doubled.
Under lockdown, DA incidents recorded by police include poisoning, kidnap, arson and revenge porn.
I interview one young woman for tonight’s programme who said her boyfriend force fed her.
‘I had no other words but ‘no’ ....on one occasion I was physically sick’ she told me
‘Sophie’ left her boyfriend and is now living in accomodation provided by the council. She’s supported by @MySisters_House which is a women’s drop-in centre in Bognor Regis which has recently opened its doors again after lockdown eased.
As for my own experience growing up - going to school was respite from my violent father. I can’t imagine what it would have been like to be trapped at home with him, week after week, with little chance of getting away from his vile behaviour
Thank you SO much to the courageous people who spoke to us about their experiences, and to the domestic abuse workers on the ground who were under such pressure during lockdown.
Here’s a non-exhaustive list of inquiries that have been carried where vulnerable girls were subjected to horrific abuse by ‘predominantly Asian men’ acc to Jan 2020 Gtr Manc report 👇
ROCHDALE Dec 2013
Serious case review by Rochdale Safeguarding Children Board highlighted failures by 17 agencies who were meant to protect kids
EXCLUSIVE: the ex-BBC junior employee who told me on #Newsnight a year ago they’d received inappropriate messages from Huw Edwards says hearing that the TV presenter had child sexual abuse images on WhatsApp ‘made them feel sick’
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The former BBC staffer tells me their ‘concern lies first and foremost with the children who are victims of the images Edwards had’
Says senior BBC leaders ‘clearly have questions to answer about how they handled the situation in November, like why they continued to pay Edwards an increased salary after knowing the allegations, although I appreciate the legal/HR complications of the whole thing’
When they first shared their experiences with @BBCNewsnight a year ago they said they ‘had no idea the story would eventually take such a dark turn’
‘The most senior BBC journalist felt able to abuse his position of power in several ways, from inappropriate messages to members of staff he did not know, to much darker activity on WhatsApp in conversation with a convicted paedophile’
‘Richard Sharp’s undergoing 2 investigations, but he’s not suspended….whereas Gary Lineker’s suspended while work goes on to decide what guidelines shld cover his tweets. That doesn’t seem fair does it?’
Ex-Ed of Sun Telegraph, crossbench peer Baroness Wheatcroft on @BBCr4today
Richard Sharp is Chairman of BBC. When applying for the job, he didn’t disclose his role in introducing a wealthy cousin who wanted to help then PM Boris Johnson with his finances, to cabinet secretary Simon Case. He’s being investigated by BBC & office of public appointments.
Mr Sharp was the government’s preferred candidate for the job. It was in the public domain that he is a Conservative Party donor.
Meet Sophie Weaver. She’s 53, lives in Mersea Island nr Colchester, Essex & uses a wheelchair all the time (she has Stills disease which is a kind of arthritis - diagnosed aged 6). She tells me she lives a full life: she’s a town councillor & a member of the local drama group 🧵
As she lives on her own, she has 24 hr care & has done for years. Carers - called personal assistant (PAs) - who’s she known for ages & who she trusts, help her do - well, pretty much everything….
• go to the loo
• get in & out of bed
• dress & undress
• wash & shower
• cook
• laundry
• drive her to the supermarket 9 miles away in Colchester, & town council meetings etc
Sophie says ‘everything in my life happens because of the personal assistants.’
Linda Evangelista breaks her silence about the ‘fat-freezing’ procedure she says has left her "permanently deformed" & brutally disfigured." She’s suing the company behind it for $50 million alleging she's been unable to work since undergoing seven sessions of ‘CoolSculpting’
She says after treatment, her chin, thighs & bra area started to bulge. The areas she'd wanted to shrink were growing, before turning numb. She began dieting & exercising more. "I got to where I wasn't eating at all. I thought I was losing my mind."
Finally she went to her doctor. ‘I was bawling, & I said, 'I haven't eaten, I'm starving. What am I doing wrong?’ He diagnosed her with Paradoxical adipose hyperplasia (PAH).‘I was like,what the hell is that?' He told me no amount of dieting/exercise was ever going to fix it.’
Tonight on @BBCPanorama I talk to people who feel forced into private healthcare because some say they’re being told NHS surgery to treat their condition could be up to TWO years away.
These are not wealthy people with cash sitting in bank accounts. They are people who are so desperate and often in such pain, they are taking out bank loans or setting up crowdfunding pages to raise funds to go private.
Sofia Jones had endometriosis - which was so bad, some days the pelvic pain she experienced meant she couldn’t get out of bed or walk.