again - we are using secret santa software and are the biggest exhange they've EVER had (lol) so the site goes in and out. but never fear, you WILL get in if you try throughout the day. 200 people signed up yesterday alone.
also bc i get FAQ: 1) you get two penpals -- one you write first, one who writes to you first. that way there is no waiting to get going. 2) you send letters, not "gifts" (unless of course you want to be extra). the gifts thing is just bc this is a secret santa site!
3) it helps to mark your "gift" as sent when you mail your first letter so your PP knows something is on the way, with the mail as mercurial as it has been -- that way if they get ghosted and ask me about it I can connect you two directly 4) people from any country welcome!
5) if u already signed up and have been ghosted after 3-4 weeks of sending a letter - DM me. I'll get u a new match. I can also provide additional matches if you bought a ton of stationary/stamps + just want to have more ppl to write to. I have about 20 PPs right now myself lol.
also i manage this whole thing myself in my spare time (but i mean, what is time these days) so pls be patient if you write with a request! i'll get to you! OK go write!!! #penpalooza
and please don't fret if elfster goes in and out -- they are awesome and doing tech support out of the good of their hearts for this thing we started using their software (@elfster we <3 u). it's glitchy but it ultimately sorts itself out!!
i need you all to know that the tech support team at @elfster are actual angels and everytime the site is a little wobbly i get messages like this; so please be patient, these lovely people are working on it!!
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i don't want to tell you how to live but this is the perfect weather in which to begin the eight part pbs documentary about nyc
episodes 3 and 5 are the real bangers but lately i have a soft spot for episode one and the ways it digs into how terrible lord cornbury was at everything
i do love that he went in drag to his official portrait sitting
ok doing a flash perfume genie while this site still exists. here's how you play: tell me a specific memory or feeling you want to evoke (the more specific the more likely you will be to get a reply!). i'll find you a perfume sample to evoke it. ok go.
again just "woodsy" or "fresh" or "happy" isn't going to help me as much as specific places, photographs, scenes from movies or novels you wish you were in, time periods, vibes
need to take a break here but i'll be back if you drop your requests?
something a mentor of mine once told me that i will pass along: a great way to stay curious/stretch yourself into something new is to pick a new-to-you obsession every season -- can be a word, a genre, an actor, a color, a place -- and curate your own little festival around it
and suddenly you start to refract the world around that thing -- so if you pick, say, opera, or F1 racing, or emily dickinson, or diana ross, or ANYTHING + start reading books about it + listening to podcasts/albums + doing double-feature movie nites new patterns will emerge
and suddenly the world is bigger and more open to you than you imagined, because things you didn't even expect have resonance just because you are trying to shove them into your seasonal obsession; you start to see connections that weren't there before. anyways!
Had never seen Magnolia so watched it last night and a) it rules b) julianne moore’s best performance maybe???? c) pta was 29 when he made it….what have I done with my life
also melora walters should have an oscar and so should tom also when donnie said “I have a lot of love to give I just don’t know where to put it” I cried
learning that Aimee Mann lost the best song Oscar the year she wrote “Save Me” to a song from Tarzan ruined my day