You'll be forming "Hard girl, hard girl," but small 'I love you' from the man you've been secretly eyeing, and you're already melting like ice cream that was exposed to sunlight 😏
I want to mention your name, but let me just be calming down small.
It's a proven fact that everyone wants to LOVE and BE LOVED, and there's no point trying to deny it.
Sis, stop trying to form 'I don't care,' stop trying to be unnecessarily difficult, it's nOT who you are.
This is how you were made - with love. You were made by a loving Father, and you can't be any lesser than that.
Locking up your heart to love because you have faced disappointment from others is just like saying you wouldn't write exams today because you failed yesterday.
Why locking your heart up is really dangerous is that once anyone (even if it's an ungodly person) is able to press your mumu button, you'll just fall flat. As in flat like toast bread.
I know this word is for someone this morning. That state of "I don't care" your heart is in is a toxic state, and it's not good for you.
You need that love in your heart. You need it because it's the very character of God in you, it is the very reason you can even serve Him correctly, it is through that you can appreciate His gifts to you. Hate is not who you are. No, that's not who you are.
I want to specially pray for people that have been heart broken even when they gave their all, May my God heal you completely and give you double for all your troubles.
Whatever it would take you to erase that hurt from your heart, please do it. Let go of the offenders, please let them go and let yourself go too. Fight for your love back by speaking about the hurt and intentionally releasing them. IT'S WORTH it. It is.
1 Corinthians 13:13, "And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
I had a friend that said their mind, only when telling a joke. They didn't know that I'm God's baby girl and in turn God's paddy. He highlighted the seemingly "meaningless" lines to me as though with a bold marker.
They'd want to express some jealousy, but they'd do it in the form of a joke and for every time they did, I could discern what exactly they intended to say, and that was because I had made a simple but sincere prayer to God.
It went like, "Lord, please I don't want to find myself living Psalm 1:1." God did not only answer my prayer but also gave me the ability to make the right choices and the necessary tools that I needed to do that—The gift of Discernment.
Sometimes, God’s intentionality about us shows in really random things. There are times you have a thought/desire you didn’t even pray about, & you just come across it on your social media or somewhere you weren’t expecting. A God who hears our WORDS and HEARTS. We stan 🙌
There are lovers that listen to every words you utter and grant your desires. Then there’s that lover who not only pays attention to your words, but to your heart too... He listens to every of your unsaid words and satisfies you, how refreshing to know!
The times you craved for shawarma and got it without asking,
The times you needed money and someone just asked for your account number (out of the blues. Lol)
The times you needed a friend and he sent someone to love you... I mean, you remember those times, don’t you?
Sis, You Said No To Him Already, So Why Are You Still Monitoring His Life?
Why are you stalking him, really? Why are you checking his social media to see if he has the picture of another lady? You already said you weren’t interested, so why?
I’m talking to you my dear, why so bothered? Why do you still look out for him at events or gatherings? Oh, I get it, the Bible tells you to be your brother’s keeper, so you’re trying to do your part innit? Lmao!
I’m not done... why does your stomach knot when you see him talking to another lady? What’s the challenge? I mean, the young gentleman met you and spoke to you about his interest, you said no,