this influenced me to write about quality conversations: how to have intro calls that don't suck...[a thread]
a wise man told me that conversations have two parties. It’s worth repeating that 5 to 10 times over – conversations have two parties.
really obscure references, things they did yrs ago are the most intriguing to ask about & show you did your research
feel free to ask clarifying questions at this point, but leave denser questions until after your intro. the context of your intro will help them shape specific answers
the absence of words is also part of conversation.
everyone has a different way of conversing, so find questions that resonate with you if the conversation comes to a lull. examples:
what’s your first memory?
what’s the most amazing thing you’ve ever witnessed?
what three superpowers do you wish you had?
do you have any secret talents?
how do you measure how you are successful?
in which are of life do you feel you have the best taste?
what are you really good at, but never want to do again?
what’s a critical piece of feedback you’ve received that was really difficult to hear?
a big sacrifice you have made in your life that’s been worth it?
i think we all change each others’ paths. who has changed your life path significantly and why?
did you ever take a “detour” in life? if so, how did it inform your choices afterwards?
can you describe your favorite homeade meal?
ALWAYS!! ALWAYS!! send a thank you email/DM after your call🙂 I try to draft them in the ten minutes after a call.